Wednesday, October 26, 2011

I Am Amber Cole’s Father

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I am Amber Cole's father. I am angry, confused and completely at a loss. I love my daughter. I want to guide her without suppressing her. That is not always easy.  Children need protection from their worst inclinations. That is not always easy. I am trying to convince her that the world will still love her if she keeps her clothes on. I do not know if she can hear me, or if she is listening. She would listen to her mother, if her mother was not busy. Doing something, anything that is not parenting.  I want her mother to spend less time being "empowered" and more time being aware and engaged with our daughter. I want her mother to be a better role model, not a BFF.  It takes two.
I am Amber Cole's father and this should go with saying: I am angry with those boys. But I knew those boys. Those boys were my friends. I grew up with those boys, hung out with those boys. But I was always The Other Guy – the boy you do not see on the tape. The one who, because of religious beliefs, self-respect or common sense decides to have no parts of such a thing. He is a nerd. He is an outsider. He is long gone, at home reading and writing. I want to meet The Other Guy and shake his hand. I'm trying to raise The Other Guy. But it is not easy. Girls don't like The Other Guy. Being the Other Guy is not as cool as being one of the boys. I want to raise my boy to not be that kind of cool. Being a gentleman is cool. I want him to get the chance I did not have. I want him to to wait for that special girl.
I am Amber Cole's father and I have seen the video. You probably have too. I would like to ask her mother's boyfriend, Karrine Steffans or Kim Kardashian where my daughter learned that. How she became proficient at such a difficult act. I want to know who has been teaching my little girl how to act like a woman while I have been trying to teach her to be a young lady. Teens don't have the tools they need to express, explore and comprehend the consequences of careless intimacy. I want to know what kinds of people we are allowing to look after our children when we are not around. I want to know why my 14 year-old knows so much about oral sex.
Amber Cole alone

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Ludacris - I'm On Fire (Feat. Bun B & Big K.R.I.T.)



Ludacris, Bun B and Big K.R.I.T. team up again for a track from Luda's newest mixtape 1.5 Gigawatts (Back To The First Time). "I'm On Fire" has that southern flow that fans of either of artists will love.

Wale - Slight Work (Feat. Big Sean)



Ambition comes out in one week! Today Wale went to Twitter to leak another track before the album release. Big Sean is featured and Diplo did the production. Odd combination I know but its still dope.

Wiz Khalifa - Rich People



Wiz drops another track for the over Meek Mill and Young Chris' "House Party." Enjoy

Memories Gaddafi

Khamenei with GaddafiLibyan people with the Kingdom of Libya flags gather during celebrations for the liberation of Libya in Quiche, Benghazi October 23, 2011. REUTERS/Esam Al-Fetori
Death 2 U!
WTF?!
Winning:
Loungin Gaddafi:
Hollywood star:
Miserable:
GrrrrrRRR:
2 shots 2 da head:
Dat 70′s show:
Grandma Gaddafi:
FML:
I’m here:
Gaddafi serving time:
Eskimo Gaddafi:
Before I was evil:
Judge Juddafi:
Me likey deez flowers:
Winning #2:
You mothafuka:
I declare WAR!
Son, I am dissapoint:
#tigerblood:

Ruled with an iron fist ... Muammar Gaddafi.Death of GaddafiPeople celebrate outside the Libyan embassy in Knightsbridge, London.Muammar Gaddafi, pictured in 1977 with then Cuba Leader Fidel Castro.Killed in Sirte ... Muammar Gaddafi.Bloody end ... An injured Muammar Gaddafi, covered in blood, is pulled from a truck by NTC fighters in Sirte in this still image taken from video footage.Jubilation .... anti-Gaddafi fighters celebrate the fall of Sirte.Last stand ... an anti-Gaddafi fighter points at the drain where Muammar Gaddafi was reportedly hiding before he was captured.Gaddafi dead ... Libyans celebrate at Martyrs square in Tripoli.Libyan National Transitional Council fighters hold what they claim to be the gold-plated gun of the ousted Libyan leader.End of an era ... Muammar Gaddafi is dead.
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Arguing: Gaddafi pictured minutes before he was killed
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Pleading: Muammar Gaddafi was killed today
Pleading: Muammar Gaddafi was killed todayTerrified: Gaddafi pleaded for his life after he was captured by rebel fighters
Pleading: Muammar Gaddafi was killed today
GaddafiPleading: Muammar Gaddafi was killed todayA day Libyans fought for: Gaddafi's eyes are closed and mouth firmly shut as preparations are made for his burial New pictures released today show Gaddafi's scarred corpse on the floor of a freezer where it is being kept before a burial Gaddafi lifts a hand to his face to see the blood pouring from his wounds. The mobile phone footage shows the dictator slumped against a jeep but still alive Grimacing in pain: A still from a video taken from the mobile phone of a rebel fighter shows Gaddafi, his face covered in blood, being dragged around by freedom fighters
This still image from YouTube courtesy of CNN shows Gaddafi's final moments
Bloodied Gaddafi's final moments were captured on a mobile phone videoGaddafi's youngest son led his own feared army unit, the Khamis Brigade, which was infamous for torture and intimidation. Killed in fighting during the fall of Tripoli.A lieutenant colonel in the Libyan army, Mutassim fled to Egypt after masterminding a failed coup against his father. Killed in the assault on Sirte, according to NTC officials.Violent and abusive, Hannibal was accused of beating his pregnant girlfriend in Paris in 2005 and was arrested for assaulting two servants in a Geneva hotel, but ran back to Libya after being released on bail. Laid back: Gaddafi poses on a sofa with two of his sons, believed to be Mohammed, left, and Saif, right, and his daughter, Ayesha The fall of the Gaddafi clan: Colonel Gaddafi, left, and, it is thought, his son Mutassim, centre, were both killed on the attack on Sirte today. Saif al-Islam, his heir, right, is thought to have been wounded
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